I met Emily at an Arizona campground on May 1st of 2003, exactly 17 days before I began my solo hike of the Appalachian Trail. Almost 5 1/2 years later, we are married and in the initial phases of planning this hike of the Pacific Crest Trail. I can't believe it. How lucky am I? That she WANTS to do this. I feel like I hit the jackpot.
Now, that being said, I am nervous, maybe even scared like she wrote in the first entry. The PCT isn't the AT. It's much different... much further away... more miles (almost 500 more)... higher elevations... we'll need an ice axe for part of it. What, an ice axe? Yep, and we've already talked to our friend Sean about teaching us the art of self-arrest.
Most on my mind though, is the trail coexistence. Certainly, we won't be happy newlyweds for the entire hike, let's be realistic here. There might be some tiffs, an argument or 2, some silence. How will we deal? And I hike faster than her. She might resent me for walking too fast, I might feel the same way towards her because she doesn't. Well, I honestly can say that I know that we can and will work through it, and it will make us a stronger couple. For that I am excited. And for this 6-month long hike with my wife I am excited!